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Overview is one of the oldest BDSM sites currently available on the market. The site has been on the market for over 10 years but has been struggling of late courtesy of the stiff competition from other sites like and Despite its presence in the world of online BDSM dating, it never gained a lot of traction, mainly because of its simple features and lackluster interface. This is why, ranks at the 4th spot on our list of the top BDSM & Fetish sites.


BdsmSingles has both free as well as premium membership options that users can opt for depending on their preferences. Check out the subscription plans below before you decide to move any further:

• Premium membership plan valid for 3 days: $7.94;
• Premium membership plan valid for 1 month: $29.93;
• Premium membership plan valid for 3 months: $39.97.


• Create a photo profile along with your personal details.
• View profiles of other kinky couples or singles to determine your compatibility.
• Create a list of your favorite members.
• Standard users can use general search where as premium members can make the most of advanced search options.
• As a standard user of this site, you’d only be able to show interest in another user. On the other hand, premium membership would give access to all options including the likes of BDSM chat, mailbox and IM. In addition, you’d also be able to see who’s online.
• Telephonic tech support is available to those who opt for a premium membership package.
• Premium members would be able to view photos of other users, hide their profile from view and see who’s viewed their profile.


Profile would be blocked if your address does not match your IP address. So there are few scammers.


1. Video can’t be uploaded to your personal profile.

2. Not 7*24 Customer Service.


The best thing about is the fact that there are more female users on this site than other BDSM websites in this segment of online dating. To be precise, the male to female ration on this site is 3:1. The medium income of members on this site is in the range of $50,000 and $100,000 which isn’t bad for a fetish website of this domain.

However, if you’re looking to connect with a younger audience, this site would disappoint you a little. The most active singles and couples on this site is ranges between 35 and 54. The website is a legitimate platform to connect with people interested in kinky fun. Besides, this is a great place to connect with MILFs who are on the lookout for BDSM hookups and fetish adventures.

While emailing and instant messaging are certainly handy options, the availability of chat room adds to the depth in the communication department. All in all, this site offers unmatched value for money, offering all the top notch options you’d want to take advantage of.



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