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Tips for Online BDSM Dating

bdsm couplesThere are lots of BDSM dating sites today, and they attract a lot of members. No matter what your fetish might be, you will find a BDSM site that suits your preferences. But more often than not, submissive women are harassed with junk messages. Below are some tips that will make your BDSM dating experience more pleasant and less stressful.

Choose a Non-Provocative Profile Photo

When creating your profile in fetish dating sites, submissive women should consider posting a non-provocative picture or even consider not posting one. Ladies with slutty photos often get the most junk messages. More often than not, BDSM dating sites allow you to attach photos to a message, or even make photos available for friends only. That means you can remain without a profile photo and still make friends on the website.

Create a Descriptive Profile

To make up for a lack of photo on your profile and still attract other BDSM singles, create a profile that describes who you are as a person and a partner, what you are looking for, and what your ideal relationship is. You should adjust and modify your profile over time until you are pleased with it.

Place a Message Keyword Request

Do you want to know whether a person read your entire profile? Place a request in the middle of your profile text that asks other people to start their message with a phrase of your choice. It can be any random phrase.

Browse through Profiles of Others

fetish lifestyleWhen looking for a potential partner, you should browse through the BDSM site and reach out to others. Even if you are a submissive woman, you can still make the first move by reaching out to guys you find interesting. And doms do like to be approached because it makes them feel powerful and attractive. And if they don’t reply to your message, don’t take it personally. The person might just be busy with other things at the moment.

Don’t Accept Video Calls until You Have Met the Other Party in Person

There have been instances in which girls agree to a video call, but the other party can only be heard because of some issues with their camera. To protect your privacy, it is recommended to limit your communications to voice calls until you met the other party in person.

Be Patient

You should be very patient when looking for partners in dating sites. If you are looking for short term people to play with, then you have lots of BDSM singles to choose from. However, a long-term partner is hard to find. It will take a long time before you can find the right one.